Our Business and Personal Lives Mirror Each Other
“You can't be in control of everything."
Nikki Ubaldini is an entrepreneur, and owner of multiple business ventures with her husband Gary in Tampa, Florida. Nikki and Gary founded the Ubaldini Group, a Mega Agent Team as their initial journey into real estate.
Part 2 kicks off with Nikki telling us how life was good and things were going well for her and her family. As it does sometimes, life changed in a matter of minutes. She experienced the loss of her sister and then she heard the news no woman wants to hear. She was diagnosed with breast cancer. When it happened, she realized she had manifested her illness. This forced her to rethink her world and ask why this was happening for her, not to her.
One thing she now had was time. She was able to work on herself. A discovery she had was how women and some men, can give up their power to doctors. After a lot of research, there were more treatments available than the traditional recommendations, many of which were better for her. This provided the impetus for Nikki to create a women’s group called WE; Women Empowered. Self-care is very important. You can’t take care of anyone else if you can’t take care of yourself.
At the beginning of her health issues, she knew this was a sign of something bigger. In times like these, reflection becomes a big part of the process. You can’t be in control of everything and be in joy at the same time she thought to herself. In today’s world, one must take care of themselves. Focus on your routines and rituals and find your balance between work and yourself.
Stop and ask yourself where is your DNA in the situation you are currently in. When someone comes at you, it’s not about you, it’s about them.
Sometimes we hit ceilings of achievement not because of skill, but because we may be holding onto baggage that we have not let go of.
Here's What We Cover in This Episode
- The importance of self-care
- The balance between personal life and business life is a health requirement
- Reflect where you have DNA